What if the difference between success and failure isn’t talent, resources, or even luck—but what happens inside your mind?

In this episode, I sit down with Gary Chupik, a mental performance coach, leadership strategist, and former pastor, to uncover the mindset shifts that separate the elite from the average. Whether you’re an athlete, entrepreneur, or someone striving for personal growth, this conversation will challenge the way you think about success, resilience, and mental toughness.

✅ The true role of mindset in success (it’s more than you think!)

✅ Why some people push through challenges while others get stuck

✅ The Playbook for the Mind—a strategy used by elite performers

✅ How mental performance impacts business, careers, relationships, and even marriages

✅ The surprising crossover between high-performing athletes and entrepreneurs

✅ How to train your mind for efficiency, focus, and execution

✅ Practical tools to break through mental blocks and take control of your thoughts

Gary also shares his personal journey, including insights from his neurodiverse marriage, and we discuss the role of faith, resilience, and purpose in navigating life’s challenges.

Whether you’re looking to elevate your career, improve your relationship, or develop unshakable confidence, this episode is packed with wisdom you won’t want to miss.

Takeaways

• The difference between success and failure is often mindset.
• People often don't aim high enough in their lives.
• A game plan for mental performance is essential for success.
• Mental strength is a suite of skills, not a single trait.
• Emotional regulation is crucial in relationships.
• Managing different life domains leads to better performance.
• Investing in your relationship is like making deposits in a bank account.
• Being a cheerleader for your partner enhances the relationship.
• Neurodiverse marriages present unique challenges and strengths.
• Success leaves clues that can guide personal growth. The divorce rate in neurodiverse marriages is high due to misunderstandings.
• Efficiency is a key value that can enhance productivity.
• Communication is essential for improving efficiency in relationships.
• The CAPE protocol helps individuals manage overthinking in high-pressure situations.
• Integrating prayer and faith can enhance mental performance.
• Surrendering to a higher power can provide peace and direction.
• Choosing your response to life's challenges is crucial for personal growth.
• Timing can significantly impact success in various endeavors.
• Building a strong mindset is essential for overcoming obstacles.
• Connecting with a coach can provide guidance and support for personal development.

Gary is an international speaker, writer, Professional Member of the Association of Applied Sport Psychology, Certified Professional Leadership Coach through the ICF (International Coaching Federation), ordained minister of 28 years, and Chaplain of the Seattle Thunderbirds for 7 years. Gary’s client list includes players, coaches, and executives from the Houston Texans, Washington Huskies, Idaho Vandals, Stanford University, USA Figure Skating, Seattle Mariners, Limitless Minds (Russell Wilson’s company), Houston Texans, National Motocross Association, Crossfit Olympics, and more. He’s worked with high-performers in business from Microsoft, the FBI, police/fire, Amazon, Keller Williams Real Estate, Thrivent Financial, Boeing, NTT Global, and many more. Gary is a sought-after speaker, coach, and consultant.

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